Interview with Tenley Molzahn by Ashley McIlwain Most of us know her as the sweet, fun, and lively girl from the popular television shows, The Bachelor and The Bachelor Pad. Tenley Molzahn captured America’s hearts as she shared her personal journey through heartbreak and healing, all with a contagious smile on her face. She showed
Convertible Sports Cars by Paul Lanum In a few moments, our first pre-marital counseling session would begin. My soon to be bride sat patiently while I paced the floor, eager to hear the deep spiritual words of wisdom that our pastor would pour into our lives. Although both my parents were Christians, their marriage resembled
I have heard it said that the three leading causes for divorce among marriages today are financial stresses, poor communication skills, and sexual intimacy, or the lack thereof. I would have to disagree. I have found that the leading cause for divorce today is simply this: couples are not fighting enough. Now before we go
I’ve heard it so many times; I know you have too. Anytime someone refers to marriage in scripture, they use it. Rightfully so, it describes the perfect relationship. I’m referring to the verses in Genesis 2. 21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he
The “S” Word: Submit by Lauren Nelson One evening while my husband and I were on our honeymoon, I was particularly slow in getting ready for dinner. I was taking my time getting primped and prepped as he sat waiting with his stomach growling. He was prodding me along to get ready quicker, but I
Have you ever heard of someone going on a huge trip somewhere new, exotic, and exciting? Perhaps you have done that yourself. Let’s say though that the person headed out on their big adventure goes without a map, directions, plans, or any idea of the language, currency, weather, etc. of their destination. What if that
Falling In And Out Of Love by Mark Gungor Recently I was asked the question: Do you believe it is possible to fall out of love with your spouse—or were you just never in love in the first place? Sorry to disillusion all of you over-romanticized thinkers out there, but my reply is not the
Forgiven to Forgive by Ashley McIlwain It’s easy to get caught up in the commercial side of holidays like Easter. Easter egg hunts, Easter bunny, candy, baskets, and egg coloring contests. All of these things are fun, but they are taking over what Easter is really all about … an incredible story of salvation. Easter
Combating “Superwoman” Syndrome By Ashley McIlwain Clean the house. Do the laundry. Iron. Call my family. Reply to emails. Run to the bank. Pick up groceries. Stop by the post office. Run a company. Work another part time job. Go to small group. Serve at the church. Make dinner. Give my husband my best. And
God’s Blueprint for Relationships by Ashley McIlwain It can be extremely difficult figuring out the right approach to dating and the pursuit of a spouse. These days it seems all rules have gone out the window for who calls who, who pays for the date, and who controls the tempo of the relationship. With
