By Ashley McIlwain
It had been nearly 24 hours since there was any sign of life. All that was left were ashes. Gray. Cold. It never crossed my mind that anything could become of it.
Yet, as I piled some newspaper and kindling wood together carefully in my usual teepee formation, before …
By Coleen York
Ever have to work on a project with someone in school, or college, or even at work?
I’ve been there. And at first (before you know what a group project REALLY means…) you’re excited about it. Obviously if more than just you is working on it, it’s going to …
By Ashley McIlwain
What does it mean to be “forward thinking?” Many of us think of it in terms of progressive thoughts and ideas. Perhaps establishing a new and brilliant way of conceptualizing and understanding life. Someone who is forward thinking is ahead of the ballgame in their thoughts, plans, and …
By Ashley McIlwain
We’ve all witnessed it … the meltdown of a random child. You’re trying to enjoy a quiet dinner for two, but instead you’re being served a big plateful of wailing child with a side of yelling, desperate parent. Perhaps you’re pushing your cart along in the grocery store …
By Ashley McIlwain
Married life is an adventure. There’s always something to learn, explore, and overcome. You laugh, cry, fight, make-up, grow up, speak up, and shut up. It’s epic, memorable, fun, exciting, and worth it. Marriage is everything it’s cracked up to be and more, but it’s definitely a lifelong …

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23 commentsInterview with Tenley Molzahn by Ashley McIlwain
Most of us know her as the sweet, fun, and lively girl from the popular television shows, The Bachelor and The Bachelor Pad. Tenley Molzahn captured America’s hearts as she shared her personal journey through heartbreak and healing, all with a contagious smile on …
Convertible Sports Cars by Paul Lanum
In a few moments, our first pre-marital counseling session would begin. My soon to be bride sat patiently while I paced the floor, eager to hear the deep spiritual words of wisdom that our pastor would pour into our lives. Although both my parents were …
Many of us are familiar with the concept of following our passions. While the words “determined,” “focused,” and “driven” are all descriptors for producing action, I believe the word “passion” is most powerful. Passion can ignite and inspire oneself to put effort into effective action and change.
Great things come when …
I have heard it said that the three leading causes for divorce among marriages today are financial stresses, poor communication skills, and sexual intimacy, or the lack thereof. I would have to disagree. I have found that the leading cause for divorce today is simply this: couples are not fighting …
I’ve heard it so many times; I know you have too. Anytime someone refers to marriage in scripture, they use it. Rightfully so, it describes the perfect relationship. I’m referring to the verses in Genesis 2.
21 So the LORD God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while …
The “S” Word: Submit by Lauren Nelson
One evening while my husband and I were on our honeymoon, I was particularly slow in getting ready for dinner. I was taking my time getting primped and prepped as he sat waiting with his stomach growling. He was prodding me along to get …
Have you ever heard of someone going on a huge trip somewhere new, exotic, and exciting? Perhaps you have done that yourself. Let’s say though that the person headed out on their big adventure goes without a map, directions, plans, or any idea of the language, currency, weather, etc. of …
Accessory To Life by Ashley McIlwain
It first caught my eye because it was simply beautiful and unique. I really had never seen anything like it, and I had to know more about it. Where did it come from? How could I get one? Who made it? Little did I know …
Falling In And Out Of Love by Mark Gungor
Recently I was asked the question: Do you believe it is possible to fall out of love with your spouse—or were you just never in love in the first place? Sorry to disillusion all of you over-romanticized thinkers out there, but my …
Attention all of you who are single, dating or engaged, newly married, happily married, or in a struggling marriage! Foundation Restoration is the perfect place for you to come to “help your relationships thrive!” Each of you will find our website provides access to a variety of valuable resources all …